Long time reader, first time writer, I think. How do you go about seducing younger women? Any lessons for a 40 something divorcee?
A couple of questions come to mind, how young, and 40 something close to 50 or 40 something close to 40?
That to be settled… Many 30 something women have come to the realization that they need to settle for 40 something man, as our contemporaries are chasing 20 something women. No reason you can't find a match there.
Younger? Well grad student types have the same needs as everyone else, just less time. A low maintenance, attractive guy who is not seeking a commitment can be of interest.
Younger still? During college, I was a server, hostess and bartender at the same restaurant for nearly 4 years and a good number of my peers had brief flings with men about 20 years their senior. Consider it carving a notch in the bed pole if you will. These flings seldom lasted long and the women tried only one or two older guys before satisfying their curiosity.
You've heard of sugar babies I'm sure. The dance is a bit different and has its own frustrations, but opening your wallet can, ahem, lead to spreading of her legs.
Seduction of course is only getting someone to do something that they already want to do. So if you're attractive, dress well and respectful the rest will follow with the proper opportunity.